Saturday, June 27, 2015

李爱玲_普贤十大愿心得报告20_24052015

这里师父说到:我们很多人就是人生没有理念,不知道要干什么?这样也可以,那样也可以。我现

在才发现我就是这样,我的人生就是跟随别人的人生去活,做别人所要求的事物而过活,没有认真的想过

到底我要如何过活。我最怕的就是没有自我,其实早就没有了。

这几个月来,一直都听到。这是你的大脑告诉你的,不是去听你大脑告诉你的东西。我的疑惑是大脑的用途是干嘛用的。


【师父要表达的是,生命要有方向,看见生命的真相(苦/轮回),而发愿修行,提升生命的品质就是我们生命的大方向。不停大脑的意思是,不太多妄念,清楚修行的目标,方法和方向后就要用行动来验证,再不断超越,这样生命就有希望,就会朝向圆满】

张宝韵_十大愿王11_25.9.2014

这堂课师父说,供养可透过供养具,而且是带法供养的供养具。供养能让我们培养善根。

自从上次上过十大愿王的课程,我知道了广修供养的重要性,在与大众一起

用餐时,都会时时提起自己的供养心;在家或自个儿的时候,时常忘掉,等

吃饱了才记得。很感谢秀梅行者的精进,她在每个用餐前的供养,让我觉得

很惭愧,也鞭策了我的供养心的成长。

但愿我的供养心会念念相续,无有间断,亦无有穷尽。

师父提到,我们在社会里要以圆融,以慈悲,智慧,有效率及众生皆得度之下做事。因材施教,适才适用。生命不要有意识形态,但是要清清楚楚。

供养能让我们培养自性善根,让如来德性体现出来。

张宝韵_十大愿王10_6.9.2014

对于师父说,“我们期望真的能够在这里达到目的”这句话,很感动。佛法

里要我们说到做到,不是说爽的,也不是说来叫别人做而已;是要我们的生

命品质有所提升。

以前不理解为什么,供养具须那么讲究,现在才了解,这是生命品质的层次

,当我们随着能力,用心去挑选,选择,欣赏时,我们的心已在供佛,供养

了,生命品质也在提升了。好美。

师父说,要用供养来填满生命的空间。因为当我们念兹在兹不离菩提道,我

们的菩提心就不会退。当有事相调不过来,就拜忏,一天二十四个小时都在

修行。

我会以这七个法供养来自我检验,自我勘定:

1. 如说修行供养

2. 利益众生供养

3. 摄受众生供养

4. 代众生苦供养

5. 勤修善根供养

6. 不舍菩萨业供养

7. 不离菩提心供养

用供养填满生命的空间,时时修福增慧

Janice_十大愿王18_26032015

In this chapter I have learn/double confirm that we have to follow the right dharma path. Before that, I’m confuse that sometime different sifu teach different way on the same issue. So here we have to use our wisdom and compassion to judge it by practicing it by ourselves in state of only listen and follow the theory. By practicing then only we will know which the right one is and know the true. We also have to see our capability and must be honest in our cultivation. 
We must build up our foundation. Open our mind and heart. Share out our learning. Follow the dharma and not the person. Used our wisdom and not emotion.
Here I also learn that we cannot bring our wealth. We only bring along our vow, our faith in sutra and also our karma. Our reformation depends on our daily cultivation and our accumulation of karma.


Learn to see our karma and work towards correct path to change our bad karma  

Janice_十大愿王17_12032015

In this chapter sifu emphasize that action speak louder than anything. Here it reminds me that leaning dharma is a long and continue thing. After coming back from long CNY holiday, I notice that I have forgotten many things that I have learn because of no practice. 
In this chapter, sifu mention that too many or to high aim will make one person more suffering is true. It remind me of my younger time, where I aim for this and that, if didn’t manage to get it, I will feel very sad and moody. Temper becomes bad.  But now after learning dharma and cut of those unrealistic aims make me happier and life more meaningful. It also calms us down. 
The other point that I got from this chapter is that sifu ask us to open up our heart. When our heart is open and peace we are not afraid of anything even ghost. We see things differently. We will have more sympathy instate of criticize. Those day when I saw bagger, in my mind, they are syndicate, dirty and lazy. Now I don’t care, I just do my part to help them out from this difficulty. Open up my heart to accept them as one of us. 

Continue open your heart and one day you can achieve great compassion like Buddha. 

Janice_十大愿王16_31012015

Sifu said that in family we are not suppose to used brain because we will not be able to solve problem. In life there is no theory but only true. Before this I used to always debating with my brother because both of us always have different point of view. We always give many reason and fact to support our argument. Both also want to talk on the same time. After listen to disc 16, I just stop using my brain and all the theory and fact, I just listen to him and let him finish then I just go straight to the point and said what I feel like saying without thinking too much. Like what sifu said in our life we have our own capability. If we used the brain to think too much the capability will gone. I notice that it work and there is not so many argument and we be able to come to a conclusion that both party happy on it.

Sifu also said that we must be fair to all human beings when we lead them. There is no priority towards family member or friend. All are the same. This remind me that, I rejected a friend asking for a car pool,  just to reserve a place to another friend that is not yet confirm going just because this friend is more closer than the other one. It make me feel bad after listen to sifu, we should tread everyone equally. Next time will be fairer, first come first serve.

What supposed to be ours, nobody will be able to take it away from us. I have one order that being rejected by customer due to third party mistakes. Thinking what to do, suddenly remember sifu said that we must show our honesty and sincerity, I approach our customer and at the end we manage to secure back the order. Sifu also highlighted that we must also have confident towards ourselves then only faith on our side.


Practice Listening, Appreciate, Admission to family members even within working environment will help you achieve better result. 

Friday, June 26, 2015

张宝韵_十大愿王17_12.03.2015

师父说,理想与现实有距离,就是业。我可要好好的看待我的“理想”,它们是不是真的不实际?还是我该加把劲,让它们实现!
说到心量,我就会觉得很好笑,一直以来,我觉得我的心量很大,不过一遇到妈妈,我的心量就没啦,总会在心里,斤斤计较她的作为。感恩行愿会的学习,让我看到了自己的起心动念,自己的“事不通”,真的要加把劲,修行修行,也感谢妈妈,让我有机会看见自己。
在做这堂功课是,我突然想起,我是为了什么而修行?
想起那首歌。。。。由我们自止恶行

心量的扩大最后就是我就是你,你就是我,不分你我的操作。